The world is consumed by sex and greed.  Who can argue with that?  Love of the world and lust of the flesh are high on the list of things to avoid in the Gospels and letters of the New Testament. 

The call to repentance and faith in Christ is predicated on a rejection of what is valued most by those of the world.  For those on the broad road to destruction, many of the Ten Commandments go out the window when it comes to sex and greed.

But, of course, sex gets great press in our, and most any, culture.  And in our media soaked 21st century world, sexual values are on full display.  For decades, the warnings of even our secular society have been heard.  “There is just too much sex saturation everywhere!” 

Cultural thinking, during the last half of the 20th century, was influenced by people like Alfred Kinsey, and was seen as more mechanical than spiritual.  Joy of Sex, the sex manual of the 1970s, also viewed sex as something done with interchangeable partners – “snap on people.”  Of course, the warped lies of the evil one are not new.  Only now these lies are communicated more freely through new technologies.

The Church rightly urges abstinence before marriage.  But abstinence from what exactly?  The very nature of sex, ordained by God, needs to be understood. 

Is the erotic effect of fornication the same as the erotic effect within those united by the Holy Spirit?  Is there sexual satisfaction in debauchery for those who God has set apart from birth?  Of course not!!

Believers need to understand and communicate that what occurs in fornication is not that which is experienced in unions blessed by the Holy Spirit.  All “sex” is not sex. 

Unfortunately, this idea has rarely, in my experience, been expressed by believers.  And doubtless, this is in part owing to a reluctance to discuss this very personal, sensitive subject.  But perhaps believers are allowing themselves to be brainwashed by the thinking of the world.

The Greek word used in the New Testament which we translate as “sin” literally means “missing the mark.”  So, in God’s economy, the sin of sexual immorality leads to a void.  It misses the mark.  It cannot fulfill erotic soul yearnings. 

We know that the law of God is written in the hearts of men.  Those who engage in sexual immorality are well aware within their souls of the insipid nature of their behavior – of the chasm of distance between them and their “snap on partners.” Like a dog whistle in their ears it shrieks, “This ain’t it, stupid!”

The erotic is a part of a believing soul that is not off limits to sanctification.  Rather, eros – the real deal – belongs to the sanctified. The Holy Spirit comes into the deepest places in the souls of believers, cementing men and women together and resulting in eroticism which is empowered by the Holy Spirit. 

God has ordained the union of man and woman and the act of procreation, making it the exclusive property of holy union.  Like thieves, others may attempt to steal it, but it belongs to His people.

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